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Good Enough for Letterman: A Post-Pandemic Need for Ritual

Apr 10, 21 • NewsNo Comments

Thank you very much, welcome to the Late Show, this is our first show on the air since New York and Washington were attacked, and I need to ask your patience and indulgence because I want to say a few things.  And believe me, sadly, I’m not going to say anything new.  And in the past week, others have said what I will be saying, here tonight, far more eloquently than I’m equipped to do.  But if we are going to continue to do shows, I just need to hear myself talk for a couple of minutes [emphasis added] and so that’s what I’m going to do here.  [September 17,  2001, New York City, NY, USA]

And then, for five-and-a-half more minutes, David Letterman poured his heart out about the 9/11 terrorist attacks. 

The New “Post-Event Trauma”

We are entering a new post-9/11-type moment in history.  According to Barna, church members are flocking back in droves to attend church in person.  What Dave got to do in his special monologue, plus the rest of the show with Dan Rather, was good for his psyche.  It was welcomed by his viewers.  But when I was reminded of that Late Night episode this week, I snapped to attention and thought, “That’s what our church members are going to need.  They need ‘to hear themselves talk for a couple of minutes.’”

Have you considered how your church will handle it?  “Welcome back!  It’s good to see everyone again.  Doesn’t this feel good?”—may not be enough.  Your speaking from the pulpit,  on behalf of your congregation, will be necessary and helpful.  But it won’t be enough.

Each person, not just the leader, needs a chance to verbalize what they have experienced—a type of debriefing.  And they need to be able to do so in a safe and holy environment. 

As a modest proposal, I would suggest that local congregations consider a post-pandemic ritual.  We all need a service of reflection or a special gathering to remember what we have been through.  Historically, churches have rung bells, or lit candles, to observe special moments.  We might also have participated in the more casual burning (or shredding) of our written confessions.  What would be something that would allow your members to share, to vent, to mourn, to celebrate, to hold each other up, and to do it in a corporate manner?

Post-Pandemic Observations

·         Maybe not in a single service, but over time, at the start of each Sunday morning service, let a few people come forward and ring a special bell.  Before, or after, ringing the bell, each person could share a short statement of what they experienced—good or bad.  From the praise of “Everyone in my family kept their jobs” to the grief of “We all got sick, and my wife passed away.”  Eventually, those returning for their first time to be back physically might be the ones ringing the bell.

·         A special song service could include members (some or all) coming one-at-a-time to the altar with a pre-prepared placard, sometimes called “Cardboard Testimonies.”  The written words could span the emotions from “My husband found Christ during the Pandemic” to “We are still grieving deeply in the loss of my mom.”

·         There could be separate services for grieving and rejoicing, or a single service could start with the painful and end with the joyful.  In some churches, it might be okay to allow folks to mix their responses randomly.  This could be done in lieu of a singing/preaching service.

·         Paint one of the walls in fellowship hall with “dry eraser paint.”  During a directed time, let members write, or draw, on the wall.  They could express their pain and/or their joy.  Different color markers could be used for different emotions.  Positive and negative memories could be mixed or grouped.  As one writes, or later after everyone has gone, give each person a chance to explain what they wrote or drew.  Cover the whole wall.

o   In larger congregations, where allowing everyone to speak would be impossible, seat everyone in a small table group with a prepared table leader.  Let each person share out loud with their group.

o   Eventually, the wall could be erased as the church moves on.  On the other hand, a clear coating could be painted over the wall to preserve it for however long desired.  Perhaps an artist could create a giant work of art, a mural, by adding finishing touches later to the wall.

Cautions

·         Some people might want/need to voice their experience, but they just can’t.  The emotions will be too much.  Allow someone to speak for them. 

·         There could be people who would make a mockery of pain that is expressed.  If you have such people, you know who they are.  The announcements you make, and the tone of the service, ought to take care of that issue.  But if not, be prepared to address those people before, during, and even after the service. 

·         We do not need to be 100% past the pandemic.  Keep up with the latest science and proceed as it feels right in your situation.

·         You may need to do it again!  The Polio Vaccine story makes today’s story feel like déjà vu.  An effective vaccine took several years to reach a large minority who ignored the science or believed unfounded rumors. Time your observation for what seems right to your folks, which may have nothing to do with when we achieve true herd immunity.

Every church is different, so plan such a service with many voices contributing to the planning and thinking through the cautions.   It may be a Sunday morning is the best time, or it may be better to have it in a special extraordinary venue, even with a giant pot-luck dinner—when it’s wise and safe to do so again.  When your leadership thinks it’s the right time, move out! 

MWD Award 2020

Nov 17, 20 • NewsNo Comments

Congratulations Dr. Dean Dickens

On Thursday, November 12, 2020, Dr. G. Dean Dickens became the 12th annual recipient of the Maples, Williamson, Daehnert Award as the Texas Baptist Interim Minister of the Year.  The award, a perpetually spinning globe, represents his world travels around the planet Earth and his life of multinational ministry.

Dr. Dickens has served Baptist churches during the interim period at First Baptist Church in Texas City, Audubon Park Baptist Church in Garland, Agape Baptist Church in Fort Worth, and South Garland Baptist Church in Garland. His interim ministry has helped churches following extremely challenging situations. These circumstances include grief, conflict, financial crisis, and the need for new direction. Dr. Dickens previously served as a pastor, church starter, missionary, and professor.

Dean & Karr La Dickens

Joining Dean for the virtual meeting and presentation was his wife, and co-minister in every place of service, Karr La Dickens.  They have been married for 50 years.

Keynote Address

As part of the virtual award event, an annual Fall Update was held. Interim pastors obtain continuing education at the bi-annual meetings. Dean spoke on: “Preaching in Covid’s Grip.” He asked the interim pastors’ group, “What adjustments are you making for more effective pastoral preaching during these stressful pandemic days?” For instance, did each SPEAKER have a ministry peer they could share with about all-too-common confrontations? Battles are being started over whether a church should open or not, or if a sermon on ethics was too political (when it was just biblical). Pastors need peer support. He asked, “Does your MESSAGE address the needs of the day?” Common needs during the pandemic include the loss of income, jobs, health, or family time. Dean concluded by asking, “Are your LISTENERS given an opportunity for a tangible response?” A scrolling banner inviting online attendees to call the church about their needs, with live responders available after service times, was one suggestion to show “we care.”

Award History

The MWD Award was originally presented to its namesakes: Dick Maples, Charles Lee Williamson, and Jan Daehnert.  These men brought the vision for a specialized interim ministry to the BGCT. Also previously receiving the award are: Wallace Watkins, James McGlothlin, Nolan Duck, Les Robinson, Fred Meeks, Jimmy McLeod, Skip McNeal, Dwight Reagan, Levi Price, and Rusty Walton.

The award reflects accumulative service, as all these men have helped multiple churches through difficult interim periods, excelled in peer reviews of their Intentional Interim Ministries, and provided additional leadership for the Interim Ministry Network of the BGCT.

Congratulations to all these, the best of the best, and to the 2020 MWD Award winner, Dean Dickens.

Saying Goodbye in 3 Parts

Jun 28, 20 • NewsNo Comments

Three stages in a pastor’s life, when difficult choices must be considered: the interview process, when being attacked by a small group, and when approaching retirement (or any time ministry no longer works). A blog from B. H. Carroll Theological Institute.

In Part I, we looked at how a bad match between a prospective pastor and church should stop the call process before taking both parties down. In Part II, we examined how a seemingly stable pastorate can be destroyed by a small group attacking the pastor. This is especially true when the attack is kept secret by the pastor, who asks for no help from mentors, denominational resources, or (especially) church lay leaders.

Part III

Twenty years ago, I was introduced to a common problem for pastors who followed a beloved, long-tenured pastor. The new pastor usually turned out to be an “unintentional interim” because there was no way the new pastor could measure up to the former pastor. “That’s not how Rev. ______ did it,” members would grumble. 

New vision was snuffed out; changes in pastoral duties were not tolerated. The failure to let go of the old pastor and accept the new was especially true when the former pastor stayed attached to the church. After a short tenure, the new pastor would become a ministry fatality, leaving ministry for life and leaving the church in turmoil. 

Today, I recognize this scenario is still alive and well. However, there’s another likely scenario that is just as common—if not more common—following long-tenured pastors.

Case Study:

Pastor Bentley experienced a decade of success. Loved, followed and trusted, the congregation became more and more like Pastor Bentley in its personality and practice. Unfortunately, what worked in the beginning, what GREW the church originally, quit working after 10 years. The gradual decline went unnoticed for about five years. Then, the church spent another five grumbling and wondering why. 

Younger families had left; the church had grown older. Under the surface, everyone knew the church and pastor both needed a fresh start. However, the pastor was by then approaching retirement age and feared unemployment and loss of income. “No one would call someone my age to be pastor,” Bentley reflected—likely a true observation—so resigning was off the table. 

What did change was that Bentley began to slack off, thinking, “I’ll just keep working at half-pace until they fire me.” Still, no one said a word. No one wanted to hurt their beloved pastor’s feelings. The slow, annual rate of decline increased until a church that once ran 300-plus dropped to 125, and was soon counting only 50 senior citizens on an average Sunday morning. 

Finally, a small group of leaders asked (or rather, demanded semi-nicely) the pastor retire. The pastor did, with whispers about being “forced out.” With the horrific decline now attached to conflict over the pastor’s departure, the church found itself beyond desperation. It would take a miracle for it to recover. In fact, most outside observers would declare, “The church died long ago. It just hasn’t been buried.”

This scenario’s name is “Legion,” for there are many, many, many churches in this state.

In this case, the lay leaders were right and wrong. They were right to call for change; they were wrong to have waited so long. 

The third lesson: As painful and scary as it may seem, if a time comes when you have given up, then … give up. Pray. Get counseling from an honest and impartial source—not a friend. Trust the Lord. It’s time to find another job. There’s nothing shameful about secular work. Your church is made up of people involved in just that. Or, find a new call that matches your abilities and energy level. It’s amazing how a new start can re-energize a pastor! Or, maybe it’s a combination of the two—part-time secular and part-time ministry employment. Indicators say this is the growing area of future ministry. But for the sake of your church, let them try something new before it’s too late to change course. 

News Flash: One doesn’t have to be a long-tenured pastor for the above scenario to take place. Sometimes, it just isn’t working and can’t be fixed. 

2020 BGCT Annual Meeting Goes Virtual

Jun 17, 20 • NewsNo Comments

You can read the news about this this announcement.

Pastor Michael Evans Speaks to the Time

Jun 13, 20 • NewsNo Comments

National Day of Prayer, Thursday, May 7–Noon Gathering Online

May 1, 20 • NewsNo Comments

Texas Baptist National Day of Prayer CallThursday, May 7, 2020 | 12:00 p.m.Link to register: https://texasbaptists.zoom.us/meeting/register/tJIkcOusrjopE9Ff1fy-IrTDpL5JdcVnr6fqProgram participants include:

  • Dr. David Hardage, Texas Baptist Executive Director
  • Mickey Lenamon, Executive Director of TBM
  • Tamiko Jones, Executive Director-Treasurer of WMU of Texas
  • Dr. Donna Burney, Texas Baptist Executive Board Chair
  • Dr. Michael Evans, Texas Baptist President

Double Gold

Jul 16, 19 • NewsNo Comments

 While weddings have changed a lot over the decades, one thing has stayed true–Summers are a great time to get married (unless it’s an outside ceremony in Texas).  Congratulations to Randy and Nancy Sprinkle on their 50th Wedding Anniversary this month.  Randy was the visionary and founder of a partnership, between Texas and New England Baptists, for training and placing interim pastors in New England. 

The Sprinkles are now retired and in Colorado, to be close to some of their family (think GRANDKIDS!).  They are greatly missed.  Nevertheless, their legacy of faith and faithfulness is celebrated–as is this wonderful event.  God’s continued blessings on the Sprinkles!

 

Another of our interim pastor couples, Dean and Karr La Dickens, also just celebrated the big FIVE-O.  Together, they have previously served in missionary, academic, and pastoral settings.  They still travel to the Philippines, to lead conferences, one of which is named for Dean.  The Dickens make a great interim ministry team, too, like at South Garland Baptist Church, where they just finished up.  Our heartfelt  congratulations to Dean and Karr La Dickens, with our prayers for God’s continued blessings!

 

As I reflect on these two wonderful couples, I’m deeply impressed by what they represent regarding our interim pastors.  Yes, we have interim pastors who haven’t reached retirement age.  However, many of our interim pastors are retirees.  They come with a strong calling from God, with energy and passion for the local church, and with extra wisdom that comes from seasons of ministry experience.  I’m blessed, every day, to rub elbows with these gifted servants of God.

DOCTOR B. Linn Self

May 8, 19 • NewsNo Comments

Linn says, “Ask me about my new great-grandbaby!”

In our circles of Texas Baptist interim pastors, most of us have known Linn Self as an interim pastor par excellence for his “temporary shepherding” of eleven churches.  Of course, he had a vital ministry before this, which included serving four churches as their installed pastor.  Then, he followed a new calling into theological education.  Linn served as the president of the South Texas School of Christian Studies for almost a decade.  The school, recently renamed Stark College and Seminary, honored Linn with an annual lecture named in his honor.  Now, they honor him again with his serving as this year’s commencement speaker on May 13, 2019.  During the graduation services, Linn will receive his own well-deserved honorary doctorate.  Congratulations to Dr. B. Linn Self.  The BGCT’s Interim Ministry Network is blessed to call him one of our own!

Golden Anniversary

Apr 30, 19 • NewsNo Comments

At First Baptist Church, Llano, James calls Don Graham forward, then church member to lay hands on Don.  James led the church in a commissioning prayer for Don’s African missions trip with the Gideons.

Dr. James McGlothlin celebrates his 50th year in ministry on Sunday, May 5, 2019.  His wife, Pat, joined him the year after his ordination, for half a century of service together for the Lord.  James has pastored 14 Baptist churches (1-youth pastor, 6-senior pastor, 8-interim pastor).  He currently leads the Intentional Interim Ministry process at First Baptist Church, Llano, Texas.  James was the 2011 recipient of the Maples, Williamson, Daehnert Award as the outstanding interim pastor for the Baptist General Convention of Texas.

Congratulations, James and Pat!

What Good is IIM? [Baptist Standard Part II]

Mar 21, 19 • NewsNo Comments

Intentional interim ministry: What good is it?